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Lizi S.
Parenting styles vary from family to family. Some parents rely on conversations, while others lead by example. But in the end, the method matters less than the outcome — what truly counts is raising children to become kind, decent people. We're sharing stories that reflect this belief — moments that may spark insight, offer comfort, or simply remind you that you're not alone on this path.
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- “This isn’t amazing, but itwas cute. Iwas atwork (waitress) acouple weeks ago and one ofmytables had acute little 3-year-old girl. She had alittle pack ofstickers, and Isaid, ‘oh, cool stickers!’ She smiled and took one off tohand tome. Itold her that itwas okay, she could keepit, but she just held itout tome. Her mom leaned over and said, ‘She’s learning about sharing, soifyou take itthat would helpus.’ SoItook itand said thank you and both little girl and mom seemed very pleased. Active teaching.” ©LaMalintzin/ Reddit
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- "I was on the train and a woman and her toddler sat across from me. The little girl asked questions, was generally curious and imaginative. She seemed very smart for her age.
Instead of her mother just ignoring her or getting frustrated, or even making up some bad answer just to quieten her down, she engaged her daughter and talked about the topic in great detail with her.
I noticed, for her age, the young girl had amazing linguistic skills. It was so good to see a parent really encouraging curiosity and explaining how the world works." © Unknown author / Reddit
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- “Mydaughter was telling meabout anevent ather school. Agirl inher class drew anapple, and when she was done, said out loud: ‘This drawing isgarbage, utterly terrible!’ Mydaughter was confused: ‘But, mom, her apple looked socool! Itwasn’t terrible atall!’ This story was another opportunity for measamom toremind mydaughter ofsomething wespoke about since she was atoddler.
Itissomething really simple but deeply beautiful and true, something weforget toremind ourselvesof, and almost never teach our children. Whenever mychildren dosomething good, accomplish any little progress orvictory, Iremind them tocongratulate themselves. Ijokingly say: ‘Don’t forget togive yourself ahigh-five!’
When mychildren fail atsomething, make amistake, orare disappointed about something they didn’t dowell, Iencourage them tobekind and loving tothemselves, and tocontinue ontheir way, accepting occasional defeat asanormal part oflife.”
©Iva Izabela Miholic/ Quora
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- “Idon’t even remember why, butI had anargument with mymom andI was very upset with tears onmyeyes. Itold herI was leaving home. Iwas crying and packing mystuff into mydad’s leather bag. When Iwas atthe door, Isuddenly realized thatI had nowhere togoand itwas almost dinner time. Atthat moment, mymom was passing byandI asked her, ‘Mom, doyou thinkI have toleave you now orcanI still stay for alittle while?’ She saidI could stay home. So, Iwas happy and went tounpack mybag.”
©Leeo43/ Pikabu
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- "Boys, 12-year-old Victor and his 10-year-old friend Andrew wanted to help with the tiles. They worked the entire day with us. There are kids that really care about the life of their area, and they want to live in the real world instead of on their phones. They were raised right. And we, as adults, should encourage them instead of pushing them away and saying, "Go away." © Mishtyak / Pikabu
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- Mymom worked nights atanursing home, then came home, madeus breakfast, and walkedus toschool before grabbing afew hours ofsleep. Iused tothink she just liked pancakes alot—she made them constantly. Ididn’t realize until later she was using the same ingredients indifferent ways because wedidn’t have money for much else. Now Ican’t smell pancakes without thinking ofhow she somehow made itall feel normal. Happy, even.
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- "I was outside and I heard a mother talking to her daughter:
— Let's buy a book.
— But I want chocolate!
— What's the point of chocolate? You eat it and it's gone, but a book can last for much longer.
The kid agreed." © garrysmodbest / Pikabu
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- I found a note in my son’s backpack that said: “If I disappear, it’s not my mom’s fault.”
I froze. My heart stopped. I asked him about it that night, trying not to freak out. He looked straight in my eyes and said, “It’s for my spy game at recess.” I’ve never cried from relief so hard in my life.
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- “Isaw ayoung family: amother, afather, a9-year-old boy, and ayounger girl. The boy runs, quickly throws abag into atrash can. The bag flies over the can, lands onthe ground, and all the trash gets spread around. The mother got into the car calmly and the children followed her. About 20seconds later, the car door opens, the boy gets out, goes uptothe bag, and throws itinto the can. Helooks back athis mother, she says something tohim, and hestarts tocollect all the trash. Hethrows itall away and goes back tothe car. The end.”
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I Won’t Give Up My Inheritance Just Because I Wasn’t the “Perfect Daughter”My Husband’s Loyalty to His Mother Is Destroying Our Marriage—And I’m Ready to Walk AwayMy Coworker Thinks I'm Rude Because I Won't Eat His "Immortal Bread"The Right Way to Buy Ripe Fruits Without Guessing or Squeezing Everything- "Yesterday, my daughter suggested that we collect the trash in the nearest forest. Today, we've collected 2 full bags of trash in less than an hour. Next time, we'll get bigger bags."
© Staryidead / Pikabu
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- "At a backyard BBQ, at a neighbor's house, a little boy and a little girl are near each other when the little girl falls down and starts crying. The mother of the little boy goes over and squats down in front of the little girl and asks why she is crying.
In between the sniffles the little girl says that "he won't let me play with one of the toys." The mother asks, "Did you ask him to play with one?" With tears trickling down her cheeks, she shakes her head "no." Mom says, "If you haven't asked him for a toy, do you think he knows why you are crying?" The little girl ponders it for a second and turns to the boy and says, "Can I play with one of the toys?" To which the boy replied by handing her one." © woo545 / Reddit
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- "My brother left his daughter at our place and she is a little bit spoiled, constantly asking someone to bring her some water or give her a toy. When she asked me for something again, I said, "Do you have arms and legs? Use them to get what you need." She took a moment to think, and then went to get some water for herself. She never asked me for anything at all, she did everything by herself. My brother later asked me if he could bring her to me more often — I had a positive influence on her." © Unknown author / Pikabu
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- "Not sure if it's the best, but I thought it was really sweet. I was at the bus and this lady was talking to her 5 year old. The little girl was talking about her day in school and was telling her mom that she had 5 drawings for Daddy and only 4 for Mommy because she didn't have time but that she would make her one at home to even it out.
The mother was just so patient and thanked her daughter and said she didn't have to because she already knew how much she loved her and that it was fine if the number wasn't even. Then the lady told her daughter that she loved her so much and she was such a good girl.
It was nice to see them together because they never stopped talking about different things and they seemed to enjoy each other company so much." © princesspea89 / Reddit
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- "My kid is 9 and he goes to school and all of his other classes by himself. His teachers often call me to tell me that my child is too small to travel to school alone. In winter, my kid wanted to live at a sports camp in a tent for one month. I let him but people criticized my decision. I think that I'm raising a future man and my job is to raise a loving and strong person, someone who can protect himself and his family." © greencloudlet / Livejournal
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- "This photo shows a small snapshot of a normal evening. My daughter was drawing (some Easter - egg — a bunny idea she had today), and there's the "magic box" for our cell phones."
© Paul Bartlett / Quora
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- "My son is 14 years old. He doesn't like any cultural events. Museums, theaters, exhibitions — nothing. My husband and I decided to stop ruining our weekends with his sad face and enjoy the experience ourselves. We decided to choose the things we would like to see and left our kid at home. Of course, when we came back home, we were really impressed and happy and kept talking about what we saw. A month later, our son wanted to come with us. And then, he even started looking for events by himself and visiting them with his friends."
© juliafeofanova / Livejournal
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- "Some teenagers outside were being very loud and they were using bad words. I was annoyed, so I wanted to yell at them through the window. But then I stopped. I was raised by professional teachers. I got dressed, went outside, and told them, "Guys, would you please not use those bad words? We'd like to use them too, but we're polite, so we don't." They apologized and stopped."
© Kaurova / Pikabu
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- "My parents. I remember one time that I broke something and I didn't tell them, when they found out they didn't yelled at me, they just said something like: It's ok to break things, sometimes it happen. But I don't want you to lie to us.
This happened too when I had a fight with someone in school, I didn't tell them and they get mad when they found out, my mom told me: It's ok to defend yourself, I know that you didn't started the fight, but I don't want you to lie to me, just say what happened.
My parents always was like that, they never hit me and I never get grounded, beside some little bad things I did they educated me well." © I_Love_Fox / Reddit
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- "If my son has an argument with someone, I won't intervene — he has to deal with that himself. I let him climb trees, fences, run fast, pet animals, ride a bike, and swim deep. I will swim next to him but I won't stop him from swimming if he thinks he can do it. Many moms think I'm irresponsible, but my kid's health and development are extremely important. The more we protect our kids, the more harm we do. We often tell them, "Don't! Don't go! Don't argue." In the end, they stop thinking, they get used to following orders. I respect my son and his choices. He's 10 years old and I think he is a person that has the right to his own opinion."
© elina_ellis / Livejournal
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- "My dad would always relived this story to his friends whenever he can. Back when we were young, my siblings and I would go to the mall to window shop. Whenever we want something, this would be our conversation (non-verbatim):
Me: Dad, can we buy this?
Dad: We don't have budget for that at the moment.
Me: Okay. If we ever had the budget, let's buy that okay?
He's very proud to say the least. He's always true with his promises, BTW."
© AAA2017 / Reddit
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- "I went to my sister's place and had to look after my 6-year-old nephew. He's pretty spoiled and he kept asking me to bring him something or do something. I was tired after 20 minutes. And then I decided to teach him a little. We cleaned the place, collected the toys, and I set a schedule — we did the same thing every day. The kid had been transformed. Several years later, I found out that every time he misbehaved, they reminded him of me and then he would behave again. Now, he's a grown-up man, has 2 kids, and he's doing great." © AleksBoev / Pikabu
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- "I used to work with a guy who had two kids and he would make them work to earn money for things they wanted. For example, if his 12-year-old son wanted an Xbox for his birthday the guy would make a deal with him. He would give the kid half the money for the Xbox then they would devise a bunch of "jobs" the kid could do, working at minimum wage, to earn the rest. So the kid would paint the storage shed and clean out the attic, stuff like that. The kid learned a sense of accomplishment and cared more for his stuff because he had to work for it and the dad got to teach his kid about earning your way in the world." © kane55 / Reddit
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- "One of the things my husband complains about to my daughter is her messy room. And I tell him it's pointless to tell her that, because our bedroom is the same. Now, my daughter and I have an experiment — every day, she and I clean up our rooms. When I watch her, I realize that many of the bad qualities I see in her, she got from me or she got because I didn't pay enough attention to her." © marionnellita / Livejournal
Every family has its own rhythm, and every child their own path. As you navigate the ups and downs of parenting, may these stories serve as gentle reminders that there’s no perfect way — just the one that works for you and helps your child grow into a good human.
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